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Writer's pictureVanessa Andersen, LISW

3 Ways to Boost Your Mood This Season: Gratitude, Kindness & Generosity


Show others you care in small ways.

As we approach the holiday season, a sense of warmth and gratitude is building in the air. It’s the perfect time to pause and reflect on how kindness and gratitude can enrich our lives and positively impact those around us. Challenges and busyness exist in our daily lives, making it easy to overlook these simple acts—but research shows that cultivating gratitude and kindness can seriously benefit mental health, fostering resilience, positivity, and a greater sense of connection with one another.


The Power of Gratitude

Being grateful is an intentional practice of recognizing and appreciating the good in our lives, whether big or small. Studies suggest gratitude can help reduce stress, improve mood, and enhance physical well-being.


When we consciously focus on what we’re thankful for, we redirect our thoughts from what’s missing or stressful to what brings us joy. This mental shift helps us feel better and gives us a more optimistic outlook for the future.


Keeping a journal is an easy way to start practicing gratitude in your life. Each day, jot down a few things you’re thankful for, like the warmth from a cup of coffee, a sweet text from a friend, or the beautiful sunset. Over time, this habit will become second nature and bring a sense of calm and contentment to your daily routine.


Small Acts of Kindness, Big Impact

Gratitude uplifts us internally, but acts of kindness can help us spread positivity outward. A simple act like holding the door for a stranger, sending a thoughtful text to check in on someone, or volunteering in your community can provide a sense of connection and boost mental wellness. Being kind releases “feel-good” chemicals like serotonin and oxytocin in the brain, which can decrease stress and lower blood pressure. Essentially, being kind benefits two people—the recipient and the giver—creating a ripple effect of positivity.


Kindness doesn’t have to be complex; start with small gestures, like complimenting someone or offering to help with a chore. These seemingly small actions can lead to a lasting positive impact on others.


Embracing Generosity in Everyday Life

Generosity is another way to discover happiness for mental health benefits. Studies show that when people give freely, whether through their time, resources, or compassion, they experience a “helper’s high,” a boost in their sense of purpose and satisfaction. This generosity doesn’t have to be grand; it can be as simple as sharing directions with a stranger or giving your undivided attention to a child.


By making a habit of generosity in our lives, we can squash down feelings of loneliness and grow our social bonds, both of which are important for positive mental health. Generosity also nurtures our empathy skills and allows us to connect more deeply with those around us.


Bringing Gratitude, Kindness, and Generosity Together

Before you get lost in the hustle and bustle of this busy holiday season, take time to consider how gratitude, kindness, and generosity could play a role in your day-to-day. Take time to reflect on what you’re grateful for, seek opportunities to share kindness, and embrace ways to give of yourself freely. Together, these practices can foster a positive mindset, strengthen your relationships, and improve your overall mental well-being.


Your friends at Pink Couch Wellness wish you a safe and healthy holiday season! Be kind. Be thankful. Be generous.


We realize that the holidays can be a difficult time for those who have lost a loved one. You might consider joining a GriefShare support group to help you navigate the challenges of loss, or reach out in the event of crisis to any resource listed on our website.

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