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Feeling Burned Out? 5 Signs You Need Rest

  • Writer: Vanessa Andersen, LISW
    Vanessa Andersen, LISW
  • Jun 13
  • 2 min read

Let’s be honest, rest often falls to the bottom of a long to-do list. When life gets busy, it can feel easier to just keep going… until your body or mind decides it’s had enough.

If you’ve been running on fumes lately, it might be time to hit pause. Burnout doesn’t always show up with flashing warning lights. In fact, it’s often a quiet build-up that’s easy to miss.


Keep reading for five signs you might need real rest (not just a night on the couch scrolling your phone), and some ways to actually make it happen.



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#1. You’re tired even after a full night’s sleep

Physical exhaustion is one thing—but if you’re still wiped out after 8 hours in bed, your fatigue might be mental or emotional. Rest is the only way to give your mind a break.


What to try: Give yourself pockets of quiet throughout the day. Even 10 minutes of sitting in stillness—no phone, no tasks—can make a difference.


#2. You’re more irritable than usual

Snapping at loved ones? Feeling overwhelmed by the tiniest things? Burnout messes with our emotional regulation, making patience and empathy harder to access.


What to try: Notice when you're reacting strongly and ask yourself, “Have I had a break today?” Then take one, even if it’s short. A walk, deep breaths, or just stepping outside for some fresh air can help reset your mood.


#3. Your motivation has disappeared

Things you usually enjoy or care about suddenly feel heavy or pointless. That spark? Nowhere to be found.


What to try: Let yourself do less. It's okay to scale back temporarily. Try focusing on one small, doable task each day. Giving yourself permission to slow down can actually help your motivation return.


#4. You’re forgetting things or feeling scatterbrained

Burnout can make even simple tasks feel confusing. If you're constantly losing track of things or feeling disorganized, it might be a sign your brain needs a break.


What to try: Create some gentle structure like setting reminders, making lists, or doing a brain dump before bed to clear mental clutter.


#5. You feel disconnected from people, work, or even yourself

When burnout takes hold, it’s easy to start going through the motions. You might feel numb, tuned out, or emotionally distant.


What to try: Connection is a form of rest, too. Try talking to a friend, journaling, or spending time with a therapist to help process what’s underneath the exhaustion.


You don’t have to earn your rest

Taking a break isn’t selfish, but essential. Rest helps you show up as the version of yourself you want to be. And if you’re struggling to find that version again, you’re not alone. We're here to help.

 

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